Useful and Productive Tips for Positive Parenting
By Andrew Loh
Successful and positive parenting is a serious issue that you must
tackle with a sense of purpose. Positive parenting helps you
kid in a number of ways like:
Develop a close bondage with you
Be a good and meaningful kid
Be successful both in personal and professional spheres
Be responsible and better mannered
However, positive parenting starts as soon as you give birth to your
baby. You may wish to learn and understand the techniques of better
and positive parenting so that you can start parenting your kid
steps in his or her sixth month. Here are some tips and suggestions
on how you can parent your kid in a positive way:
Infants (0-1 year):
Talk nice things to your baby. Your voice could be too soothing to
your baby at this point of time. Your voice will act as an
encouraging tool to soothe and pacify your baby.
Your baby starts uttering primary words by using his or her sweet
tongue. At this juncture, you can answer him or her with a series of
repeating words. When you repeat simple words to your baby, he or
she will start learning how words are spoken.
You can slowly read and sing for your baby, which will help him or
her to learn about language and diction. The power of positive
parenting lies with you when you teach your kid the art of language
in the first year of life.
Singing lullabies and nursery rhymes will help your kid to recognize
sounds and syllables in a better manner.
You can even play music while singing rhymes and songs. This action
will help your baby to develop and enhance an ability to listen to
Another important parenting tip is to pay lots of attention to the
growing baby. This action will help your baby to develop a close
relation with you.
It is better to spend a considerable amount of time by hugging and
cuddling your baby. When you show your love by hugging and holding,
your baby will feel safe and secure. This will help your baby to
reciprocate his or her love for you during the succeeding years of
Ensure that you are playing with your kid whenever she or he is wide
awake. Make sure that you are playing simple and relaxing games so
that your kid will love and adore you.
Feeding could be the great time for every mother. This is also the
time when both you and your baby will be enjoying the power of
Toddlers (1-3 years):
Reading good stories or singing sweet nursery rhymes seem to be the
most useful method. This unique habit will help your kid to
comprehend the meaning of words and syllables.
You can even play simple games of finding objects or things. These
games will help your kid to enhance the spatial thinking skills as
well as hand-eye-muscle coordination skills.
Matching and boarding games are some of the most useful games that
you can play with your kid.
Games that involve exploration, detection and finding things are the
other games that help your kid to imbibe the characters of
inquisitiveness and curiosity.
Teaching basic words and syllables will help your kid to master
language and grammar.
Once your kid reaches his or her second year, you can start reading
colorful story books so that she or he can watch those beautiful
images and colorful words.
Pretend play is yet another unique play opportunity that helps your
child to learn cause-effect lessons.
Teaching your kid is never complete unless you start make your kid
understand the importance of good mannerisms, better behavior,
obedience and discipline. These are some of the most desirable
traits that you must adapt and practice in your parenting style.
Simple commands or requests may not work at times and you may need
to match your words with relevant and suitable action. You will need
to be a thinking parent of you wish to be an effective parent who is
capable of adapting the most beneficial and positive parenting
Being a resourceful parent is rewarding and challenging, while
positive parenting offers a number of benefits that will lead to
smart and intelligent kids who can excel in sphere of life. Learning
positive parenting skills can make you more confident and empowered
to parent your kids in a better manner. Your kids will also benefit
largely in many different ways as you teach those skills to them.